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Week 3: Fun

Although the word "fun" consists of only 3 letters, it has many different meanings depending on who you ask.

Dearest and me define "fun" differently; I think going to museums is fun, he finds amusement parks fun. No, I do not really enjoy amusement parks. Yes, I mean that. I know, I know.

But, that does not prevent us from having fun together. I think what really defines fun is who, not what. Even the lamest activity can be fun, when you are doing it with someone you love. Yes, that was a somewhat cheesy sentence. But, honestly, I think it's true.

After all, marriage is about compromise and sacrifice. So, sacrifice your definition of fun and relax! Try out different things together. Who knows? You might surprise yourself.

All in all, I thank Allah because my husband enjoys shopping almost as much as I do.

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