We Are Married

Being married has its hard times; those times when you feel like you cannot take it anymore, the times when you just have to go crazy and let it all out. Those hard times carry their own benefits. One of them is that you learn how to handle your emotions and how to express your feelings. Because, after that, you regain your senses again and both of you can talk it out. After all, we are just being real human beings. But, being married doctors have its own hardships. Especially when both of your schedules do not allow you to spend more than 4 hours together in a day and you just cannot do anything about it. During those times when you are left alone, the only thing you can do is try your hardest to occupy your time with the various distractions you have around the house. That is the time when you tweet with your iPad and blog with your laptop at the same time. Haha. To tell you the truth, being married HOs is amazing. Why? Because you will always have someone by your side that ac...

It is an amazing feeling; when you realize that your spouse actually knows you better than you know yourself. Today, this happened: Me: Why didn't you talk to me? Him: Because I know you were tired and hungry. So, I let you eat and cool down first before I approach you to say anything. Which is the ultimate truth; don't talk to me when I am hungry/tired, I will actually turn into a dragon. Haha. I think that is the sweetest surprise; how my husband actually understands me and knows exactly what to do when it comes to me and my terrible mood swings. It just reminds me why I fall in love with him. So, try as much to understand each other. I think silence helps a lot in this matter. Assess the situation and learn from experiences. Yes, we learn from our mistakes. But, too many mistakes can lead to disaster. So, make just enough to learn as much as you can. In marriage, there is ALWAYS room for improvement. All you need is time and space...and, of course, love.